QUICK 'N' DIRTY: Pegging -
An Introduction to Butt Stuff

The first episode answers the call to a lack of educational yet erotic resources on How To Peg that is more than just “lube up and go slow.” 

  • Lola Jean
  • 8 Part Series
    49 minutes
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QUICK ’N’ DIRTY is an entertaining, sometimes campy and overall educational break down on sexual topics, concepts, and acts covering everything from preparation, tools, shame and communication. 

And yes, there is penetration. 

ARE YOU A PEGGA? 
Address any fears and expectations with your partner prior.

    • What cleaning are you doing to prep?
    • What type of barriers are you using?
    • What happens if there is poop?
    • If someone has not been penetrated before, odds are they’re probably scared of pain. Hello, empathy builder!
  • PEGGING DOESN’T CHANGE WHO YOU ARE OR HOW YOU IDENTIFY SEXUALLY.

    Newsflash, if you thought gay men were plowing each others bum holes because it’s the only hole available, get ready to have your mind blown. Having your back door entered can be pleasurable for a variety of reasons that have nothing to do with your sexuality and everything to do with one enjoying a part of your body and the way it makes you feel.

IMAGINE YOURSELF NAKED ON A BED. THE PERSON YOU’RE WITH IS FULLY CAPABLE, PREPARED AND, MOST OF ALL, EXCITED. A DEVILISH GRIN CROSSES THEIR FACE FOR WHAT YOU’RE ABOUT TO DO TOGETHER. YOU’RE NOT SCARED OR WORRIED BECAUSE YOU KNOW YOU’RE IN GOOD HANDS—AND ONE OF THOSE HANDS IS CURRENTLY MASSAGING THE CREVICE BETWEEN YOUR ASS CHEEKS. 

ANY NERVES YOU HAD BEFORE QUICKLY DISAPPEAR AS THIS METHODICAL RHYTHM ON YOUR BUTT IS ODDLY THE MOST SATISFYING MASSAGE YOU’VE EVER HAD. AS IF THEY COULD SENSE THE EXACT PATTERN OF YOUR BREATHING, THE TIP OF ONE GLOVED FINGER LEANS AGAINST YOUR PUCKERING HOLE. THEY’RE TESTING, TO SEE IF YOU'RE READY. YOU TAKE A DEATH BREATH OUT AND YOUR ASS ALLOWS, ACCOMMODATES, AND WELCOMES THAT FINGER INSIDE. AS IF YOU’RE ONE, WORKING TOGETHER MAKES THIS EVEN MORE DELICIOUS… 


Pegging doesn’t have to be and should not be painful. Many launch into conversation about lube, dildos with a focus on “going slow and breathing.”While this is sound advice, there’s much much more to it. Yes, lube, pacing and breathing are important for pegging….and also for 90% of all sex acts. 

Let’s get over the ‘lack of confidence’ hump when it comes to humping butts.You don’t need to be physically strong or a fear inducing Dominant to be a prepared pegger. Anyone can learn to thrust with the best of them, though some of us have a certain demeanor that seems to beckon the hungry holes to line up. 

When you decide to go the route for dildo penetration there are two important elements: dildo selection and sex positioning. For first timers, you don’t want an intimidating dildo nor do you want one the size of a baby carrot. It should be long enough so you have a chance of hitting the fun parts, not to mention making this easier on the pegged because they’ll run less risk of falling out with a moderate length to their apparatus of choice. Curvature is a nice addition no matter what pair of genitals your peggee has, assure you’re always aiming it towards the genitals as this will differ in face up versus face down positions. 
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